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Varsity Gay League is more than a kick in the grass

Sports are all about friends, family and empowerment

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Every year when he walks out onto the field of Dodger Stadium to play kickball, Will Hackner tears up. Taking the mound to pitch a game of kickball on the home field to one of the most famous and successful teams in Major League Baseball, is a dreamlike honor and culmination of an unlikely journey for the gay man, once a bullied and un-athletic small kid who loved video games.

Hackner, who has been called the godfather of gay kickball, founded the national LGBT sports organization Varsity Gay League, which provides sports and recreation for the LGBT community, after becoming disillusioned by his job in Hollywood and the West Hollywood bar scene.

Now in its tenth year and serving ten cities across the U.S., VGL has serviced over 8,000 players across many sports and all experience levels while pioneering a kickball movement within the LGBT community. With kickball as its anchor sport, the league offers bowling, soccer, tennis, beach volleyball, flag football and dodgeball, among others.

Shutt, bottom right, with his championship team ‘Stranger Twinks’ (Photo provided by VGL)

The idea for the league started after Hackner and few friends walked into a West Hollywood bar just as they realized how little any of them wanted to be there. Will was exhausted by the monotonous notion of another night whose success depended on matching with the ever-elusive hot guy essential for a happy ending.

On a whim, the group went to West Hollywood Park to hang out and then began a spontaneous game of tag. They chased each other around the park on the warm summer night while becoming soaked by the sprinklers. Their infectious jubilation recruited strangers passing by to join in on the playful merriment. Will was experiencing a child-like fun that seemed absent from his life.

Clayton Grey (Photo provided by VGL)

ā€œThe experience reminded me that regardless of our age and the values our community perpetuates – like having to be one of the cool guys at the party with the great bodies to matter – you can be yourself and have fun,ā€ Hackner said.

From that moment, Hackner was emboldened to create a way for people to connect and have fun. Varsity Gay League was an organic evolution of that idea, a way for Hackner to play games and get out of the house; it was not meant to be a business. Starting with capture the flag, other sports like kickball and paintball, and activities like an Easter Egg hunt, soon followed. Through sports, friendships began to form and those friendships created community.

In 2012, Hackner, who had been working as a creative producer for companies like DC Entertainment and Spinmaster, experienced two layoffs in as many years. Hackner decided to take ownership of his life and no longer work at the wavering mercy of others who may or may not share his creative vision. VGL became his business, which in a twist of fate fulfilled his original purpose for working in Hollywood – to entertain and connect with others.

Will Hackner, left, with league member Nathan Frizzell (Photo provided by VGL)

ā€œVGL gives people the opportunity to connect with others and be seen succeeding in an environment that doesnā€™t adhere to superficial social rules and hierarchy that plague the gay community,ā€ Hackner said. ā€œI get to be a part of a changing paradigm and it gives me purpose.ā€

Hackner sees this cultural shift slowly envelop each city VGL serves. The league isnā€™t homogenized and segregated like much of the gay community. People begin to form friendships with someone unexpected. With sports as a uniting activity, no longer are people only connected by having a similar appearance or social status. Hackner believes VGL helps to destroy the superficial social barriers and misrepresentations that for so long segregated the community.

VGL was a gateway into a community that league member Clayton Grey didnā€™t know existed, much less that he had the athletic skills to be welcomed in.

ā€œHaving an outlet to explore my athleticism that I was too nervous or scared to do as a child and teenager, has given me confidence and security in myself as an athlete and as a person,ā€ Grey said. ā€œVGL means I’ll always have a league or a team to belong to, and I’ll always have a community to hang out with.ā€

ā€œTo see that communal switch happen in every VGL city is remarkable,ā€ Hackner said. ā€œWhen I walk into a bar now, I am not looking for the hot guy to sleep with; I am not looking for a guy to make laugh or try to get drunk and get rejected by. I am looking for my friend; I am looking for someone to play in my league.ā€

Clayon Grey pitching during a game of kickball (Photo provided by VGL)

The league community is about more than athletic ability, it about finding a family-like group that allows each person to have the security to grow and try something new. When kickball lover Michael Shutt had three strokes that left him mostly blind and paralyzed on his left side, he spent nine months recovering, which left him feeling isolated. Wanting to be involved in the community as he continued to recover, he signed up to be a captain of a draft league kickball team. Generally, VGL kickball teams are self-formed and players without a team are assigned a team by league managers with the exception of draft league, which occurs once yearly. Draft league teams are formed by captains who draft players based on skill level observed during a day of scrimmages.

A post-game high five by two opposing team members (Photo provided by VGL)

Shutt, who is experienced at kickball but has partial vision, chose a co-captain who has perfect vision but was inexperienced at kickball. The pair drafted a team based on Shuttā€™s observation of the playerā€™s energy and movement, with his co-captain identifying the player impressing Shutt. Amazingly, their team won the season championship. For Shutt, the season was about so much more than winning.

ā€œI needed to get back out there and get involved to feel normal again,ā€ Shutt said. ā€œI am very lucky, the team supported me as much as I supported them, and thatā€™s the amazing thing about VGL. Itā€™s such a huge community that gives you an instant and invaluable support network.ā€

Varsity Gay League became the first organization to be allowed to play kickball at Dodger Stadium through its annual sponsorship of the Dodgersā€™ LGBT night three years ago. VGL continues to expand its corporate and charitable partnerships, celebrating its first year of partnership with the San Francisco Giants this year.

 

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Saudi Arabia to host 2034 World Cup

Homosexuality remains punishable by death in the country

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FIFA has announced Saudi Arabia will host the 2034 World Cup, despite concerns over its human rights record that includes the death penalty for homosexuality.

The Associated Press reported FIFA confirmed the decision on Dec. 18. The AP noted Saudi Arabia is the only country that bid to host the 2034 World Cup.

ā€œThis is a historic moment for Saudi Arabia and a dream come true for all our 32 million people who simply love the game,ā€ said Sport Minister Prince Abdulaziz bin Turki Al- Faisal, who is also president of the Saudi Olympic and Paralympic Committee, in a statement the Saudi Press Agency posted to its website.

Saudi Arabia is among the handful of countries in which consensual same-sex sexual relations remain punishable by death.

A U.S. intelligence report concluded Saudi Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman ā€œlikely approvedā€ the murder of Jamal Khashoggi, a Washington Post columnist, inside the Saudi Consulate in Istanbul in 2018. A federal judge in 2022 dismissed a lawsuit against Prince Mohammed after the Biden-Harris administration said he was immune to the lawsuit because he is the countryā€™s prime minister.

Human rights activists have also criticized the Saudi government over the treatment of women, migrant workers, and other groups in the country.

“No one should be surprised by this,ā€ Cyd Zeigler, Jr., co-founder of Outsports.com, an LGBTQ sports website, told the Washington Blade in an email after FIFA confirmed Saudi Arabia will host the 2034 World Cup. ā€œFIFA, the International Olympic Committee, and many other world governing bodies routinely turn to authoritarian countries with terrible human-rights records to host major sporting events. There are simply few other countries willing to spend the billions of dollars it takes to build the needed infrastructure.ā€

Peter Tatchell, a long-time LGBTQ+ activist from the U.K. who is director of the Peter Tatchell Foundation, in a statement described FIFAā€™s decision as ā€œa betrayal of the values that football should stand for: Inclusivity, fairness, and respect for human rights.ā€

ā€œThis is not about football; itā€™s about sportswashing,ā€ said Tatchell. ā€œThe Saudi regime is using the World Cup to launder its international image and distract from its brutal abuses. By granting them this platform, FIFA is complicit in whitewashing their crimes.ā€

Qatar, which borders Saudi Arabia, hosted the 2022 World Cup.

Consensual same-sex sexual relations remain criminalized in Qatar.

ā€œSaudi Arabia was the only country to bid for the 2034 FIFA World Cup,ā€ said Zeigler. ā€œSo, until FIFA, the IOC (International Olympic Committee) and other governing bodies ban major human-rights violators from hosting, we’ll continue to see events like this in Saudi Arabia, China, Qatar, and other countries with terrible LGBTQ rights issues.”

The Blade has reached out to FIFA and the Saudi government for comment.

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Controversy grows over member of Calif. universityā€™s womenā€™s volleyball team

Coach suspended, NCAA sued, more rivals forfeit

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San Jose State Universityā€™s women volleyball team has collected yet another W by forfeit ā€” its seventh so far this season ā€” as controversy swirls around one player on its roster. Sheā€™s one of the seniors, and she has been dragged in the media by her own co-captain, who outed her as transgender. 

The Washington Blade is not naming this student athlete since neither she nor the school have confirmed or even commented on her gender identity.

SJSU visited San Diego last weekend for a match before the Aztecsā€™ biggest home crowd of the season ā€” including protesters waving ā€œSave Womenā€™s Sportsā€ banners and booing one player on the Spartans team in particular: The woman who is reported to be trans. 

Security was tight, with metal detectors and extra guards and police officers present. Video posted to YouTube by a right-wing sports media site ā€” which names the player ā€” shows an angry fan arguing with security about his First Amendment rights. 

Video recorded during Nov. 9ā€™s game shows a player for San Diego was injured following a spike by the player rumored to be trans, and had to be helped off the court. However, the video clearly shows that player was injured by landing poorly on one foot, not as a result of the spike. 

The Aztecs defeated the Spartans 3-1, but San Jose has still punched its ticket to the conference finals, thanks to its record number of forfeits. 

Wyoming was set to visit SJSU Thursday, but for the second time is joining other universities that have forfeited games against the Spartans, all without providing a reason. Boise State announced it will forfeit an upcoming match set for Nov. 21, its second forfeit against SJSU. 

In September, the Spartansā€™ co-captain, senior Brooke Slusser, outed her own teammate, the player at the center of this controversy, in joining a federal lawsuit against the NCAA spearheaded by anti-trans inclusion activist and former college athlete Riley Gaines.  

Slusser said in the lawsuit and in subsequent interviews that the player in question shouldnā€™t be on her team. The suit claims the NCAAā€™s policy on trans athletes violates Title IX by allowing ā€œmenā€ to compete in women’s sports and use women’s locker rooms where they display ā€œfull male genitalia.ā€  

The NCAA policy for trans athletes participating in womenā€™s volleyball aligns with that of USA Volleyball, which requires trans female athletes to suppress their testosterone below 10 nmol/L for a period of one year before competition. That is also how the NCAA determines eligibility. SJSU has stated repeatedly that all its players are eligible. 

The lawsuit also asks the NCAA to revoke any titles or records won by trans female athletes in women’s competitions, which seems to be specifically aimed at stripping out trans NCAA champions Lia Thomas and CeCĆ© Telfer of their titles in swimming and track and field, respectively.Ā 

Prior to this season, the player rumored to be trans did not attract any attention other than being a successful starter, like Slusser. But now that she is in the media spotlight, Slusser has come forward to tell right wing media, including Megyn Kelly, why she feels another woman two inches taller than she is poses a danger.Ā 

“I don’t feel safe,” Slusser said on “The Megyn Kelly Show” last month. “I’ve gone to my coaches and said I refuse to play against [her] ā€¦ It’s not safe.”

In the video, both Kelly and Slusser refer to the player as ā€œhimā€ and a ā€œman,ā€ and name her. 

Now comes another twist: San Jose State University suspended associate head coach Melissa Batie-Smoose with pay, indefinitely, after she filed a Title IX complaint against SJSU. She claims the player Slusser identified as trans conspired with an opponent to help the team lose a match and injure Slusser. Batie-Smoose named the player in question in her complaint and on Sept. 23, joined the same lawsuit that Slusser is now a part of. 

“Safety is being taken away from women,” Batie-Smoose told Fox News. “Fair play is taken away from women. We need more and more people to do this and fight this fight because womenā€™s sports, as we know it right now will be forever changed.”

Media reporting on the suspension, including Fox News, continue to name the athlete in question, with some also reporting what they say is the athleteā€™s birth name. 

San Jose State released a statement following the suspension of Batie-Smoose: “The associate head coach of the San Jose State University womenā€™s volleyball team is not with the team at this time, and we will not provide further information on this matter,” the team said.

SJSU Coach Todd Kress told ESPN that reports saying that any member of the Spartans colluded with their opponent are ā€œlittered with lies.ā€ 

The Spartans are currently among the top six finishers in the Mountain West Conference that will qualify to compete in the conference tournament scheduled for Nov. 27-30. 

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University of Nevada forfeits game rather than play possible trans athlete

Womenā€™s volleyball team cites ā€˜not enough players to competeā€™

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For the fifth time, a womenā€™s volleyball team has chosen to forfeit instead of play against San Jose State University, because of rumors that one of its players is a transgender woman. 

The University of Nevada, Reno, officially announced on Friday that it would forfeit Saturdayā€™s game against the SJSU Spartans. This followed an announcement by Wolf Pack players who said they “refuse to participate in any match that advances injustice against female athletes,” without providing further details.

Originally, Nevada’s athletic department had said the program would not back out from the match, citing state equality laws, but also said that no players would be disciplined if they chose to not participate.

ā€œThe vast majority of our team decided this is something we wanted to take a stand on,ā€ Nevada team captain Sia Liilii told Fox News. ā€œWe didnā€™t want to play against a male player.”

ā€œIn all of our team meetings it just kept coming back to the fact that men do not belong in womenā€™s sports. If youā€™re born a biological male, you donā€™t belong in womenā€™s sports. Itā€™s not even about this individual athlete. Itā€™s about fair competition and safety for everyone.ā€

Outsports and several conservative and right-wing websites have identified the player who is rumored to be trans, but the Los Angeles Blade has opted to not do so since she herself has not come forward to either acknowledge or deny she is trans.Ā 

As ESPN reported, Nevada follows Southern Utah, Boise State, Wyoming, and Utah State in canceling games against the Spartans. Boise State, Wyoming, Utah State, and Nevada are all members of the Mountain West Conference, so those contests are considered forfeits and count as valuable wins in the league standings for San Jose State.

Riley Gaines, the anti-trans inclusion activist for the Independent Womenā€™s Forum has joined the chorus in claiming the Spartansā€™ roster includes a trans woman.

Despite this, neither San Jose State nor any of the other forfeiting teams have said the universityā€™s women’s volleyball team has a trans player. SJSU issued a statement defending its roster.

ā€œOur athletes all comply with NCAA and Mountain West Conference policies and they are eligible to play under the rules of those organizations. We will continue to take measures to prioritize the health and safety of our students while they pursue their earned opportunities to compete,ā€ the statement read.

The governors of Idaho, Nevada, Utah, and Wyoming ā€” all of whom are members of the Republican Party ā€” have issued public statements supporting the cancellations, claiming itā€™s in the interest of fairness in women’s sports. This week, Donald Trump, the GOP presidential nominee and former president, spoke at a Fox News televised town hall when asked about trans athletes in women’s sports. 

ā€œWeā€™re not going to let it happen,ā€ Trump said. ā€œWe stop it, we stop it, we absolutely stop it. We canā€™t have it. You just ban it. The president bans it. You donā€™t let it happen. Itā€™s not a big deal.ā€ 

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Homophobes threaten lives of WNBA star and wife

New York Liberty forward Breanna Stewart received anonymous emails

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While the New York Liberty are focused on defeating the Minnesota Lynx in the WNBA finals, one of its stars has come under attack from anti-gay bigots who made death threats against that player and her wife, according to the Associated Press.

The homophobic death threats targeted forward Breanna Stewart and her wife, retired Phoenix Mercury guard Marta Xargay. Stewart said they arrived in Xargayā€™s email inbox. 

ā€œThe fact it came to Martaā€™s email is something she (had to) see. The level of closeness was a little bit different,ā€ she said. ā€œMake sure that myself and Marta are okay, but that our kids are the safest.ā€

Stewart, the two-time MVP known to teammates and on social media as ā€œStewie,ā€ told reporters Tuesday she notified her team about the emails, The Liberty then escalated it to WNBA security.

ā€œWeā€™re taking the proper precautions,ā€ Stewart said, noting that she felt the Libertyā€™s winning streak was only encouraging more threats. New York is leading their opponents two games to one after Tuesday nightā€™s 80-77 win in Minneapolis. ā€œWe love that people are engaged in our sport, but not to the point where thereā€™s threats or harassment or homophobic comments being made.ā€

Xargay filed a complaint with the New York Police Department at the advice of the team and security, said Stewart.

ā€œBeing in the finals and everything like that it makes sense to file something formal,ā€ she said.

The NYPD confirmed to the Associated Press that it received a report of aggravated harassment involving emails sent to ā€œa 33-year-old victim,ā€ said a police spokesperson. The departmentā€™s media relations team added that the NYPD hate crimes task force is investigating the threats. 

Although Stewart told reporters she has an agency that reviews most of the messages she receives, she was stunned to learn from her wife about the hateful messages that wound up in Xargayā€™s inbox. She said thatā€™s why she decided to let fans know thereā€™s no justification for hate. 

ā€œFor me to use this platform to let people know itā€™s unacceptable to bring to our sport,ā€ she said.

Last month, WNBA players and their union representatives called out league commissioner Cathy Engelbert for failing to condemn a spike in racist attacks on players. Itā€™s been a long-standing problem exacerbated by the rivalry between Indiana Fever star Caitlin Clark and the Chicago Skyā€™s Angel Reese. The league has never been more popular than it is now, and with that success, fans have escalated their criticism of players. 

Since then, Engelbert has addressed the rise in player harassment on social media in an address prior to Game 1 of the WNBA finals one week ago. 

ā€œIt just is something where we have to continue to be a voice for this, a voice against it, condemning it, and making sure that we find every opportunity to support our players, who have been dealing with this for much longer than this year,ā€ Engelbert said.

In her address, Engelbert pledged the league will work with the playersā€™ union to figure out what they can do together to combat it. 

ā€œWe continue to emphasize that there is absolutely no room for hateful or threatening comments made about players, teams or anyone affiliated with the WNBA,ā€ a league spokesperson said in response to questions about the death threats made against Stewart and Xargay. ā€œWeā€™re aware of the most recent matter and are working with league and team security as well as law enforcement on appropriate security measures.ā€

The Liberty play the Lynx again Friday night in Minneapolis. 

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Homophobes threaten lives of WNBA star and wife

New York Liberty forward Breanna Stewart and Marta Xargay received anonymous emails

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While the New York Liberty are focused on defeating the Minnesota Lynx in the WNBA finals, one of its stars has come under attack from anti-gay bigots who made death threats against that player and her wife, according to the Associated Press.

The homophobic death threats targeted forward Breanna Stewart and her wife, retired Phoenix Mercury guard Marta Xargay. Stewart said they arrived in Xargayā€™s email inbox. 

ā€œThe fact it came to Martaā€™s email is something she (had to) see. The level of closeness was a little bit different,ā€ she said. ā€œMake sure that myself and Marta are okay, but that our kids are the safest.ā€

Stewart, the two-time MVP known to teammates and on social media as ā€œStewie,ā€ told reporters Tuesday she notified her team about the emails, The Liberty then escalated it to WNBA security.

ā€œWeā€™re taking the proper precautions,ā€ Stewart said, noting that she felt the Libertyā€™s winning streak was only encouraging more threats. New York is leading their opponents two games to one after Tuesday nightā€™s 80-77 win in Minneapolis. ā€œWe love that people are engaged in our sport, but not to the point where thereā€™s threats or harassment or homophobic comments being made.ā€

Xargay filed a complaint with the New York Police Department at the advice of the team and security, said Stewart.

ā€œBeing in the finals and everything like that it makes sense to file something formal,ā€ she said.

The NYPD confirmed to the Associated Press that it received a report of aggravated harassment involving emails sent to ā€œa 33-year-old victim,ā€ said a police spokesperson. The departmentā€™s media relations team added that the NYPD hate crimes task force is investigating the threats. 

Although Stewart told reporters she has an agency that reviews most of the messages she receives, she was stunned to learn from her wife about the hateful messages that wound up in Xargayā€™s inbox. She said thatā€™s why she decided to let fans know thereā€™s no justification for hate. 

ā€œFor me to use this platform to let people know itā€™s unacceptable to bring to our sport,ā€ she said.

Last month, WNBA players and their union representatives called out league commissioner Cathy Engelbert for failing to condemn a spike in racist attacks on players. Itā€™s been a long-standing problem exacerbated by the rivalry between Indiana Fever star Caitlin Clark and the Chicago Skyā€™s Angel Reese. The league has never been more popular than it is now, and with that success, fans have escalated their criticism of players. 

Since then, Engelbert has addressed the rise in player harassment on social media in an address prior to Game 1 of the WNBA finals one week ago. 

ā€œIt just is something where we have to continue to be a voice for this, a voice against it, condemning it, and making sure that we find every opportunity to support our players, who have been dealing with this for much longer than this year,ā€ Engelbert said.

In her address, Engelbert pledged the league will work with the playersā€™ union to figure out what they can do together to combat it. 

ā€œWe continue to emphasize that there is absolutely no room for hateful or threatening comments made about players, teams or anyone affiliated with the WNBA,ā€ a league spokesperson said in response to questions about the death threats made against Stewart and Xargay. ā€œWeā€™re aware of the most recent matter and are working with league and team security as well as law enforcement on appropriate security measures.ā€

The Liberty play the Lynx again Friday night in Minneapolis. 

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Forfeitures against San Jose State over trans athlete on roster spark controversy, backlash

Boise State, University of Wyoming and Utah State joined Southern Utah in forfeiting against San Jose State this season.

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Blaire Fleming is at the center of a national debate over transgender athletes joining gendered sports at the collegiate level, after her team won fourth match by account of forfeiture.

Fleming made headlines earlier this year as her former roommate and team co-captain, Brooke Slusser, filed a class-action lawsuit against her and the National Collegiate Athletics Association. Slusser took to the Independent Council on Womenā€™s Sports to file the class action lawsuit along with other cisgender athletes.

They claim that allowing Fleming and other transfemme athletes compete in womenā€™s sports is in violation of Title IX, which does not permit trans athletes to compete against biological women, or use womenā€™s restrooms. 

The move to forfeit on account of a trans athlete, sparked controversy and driving the three other universities to forfeit in the recent weeks.

San Jose State responded to the latest forfeiture by stating that outing Fleming would have violated school policy. 

The NCAA stated that it will ā€œcontinue to promote Title IX, make unprecedented investments in womenā€™s sports and ensure fair competition for all student-athletes in all NCAA championships.ā€

The controversy gained more traction as cisgender, far-right, voices joined the conversation. 

Riley Gaines, a former competitive swimmer who came in fifth place in a 200-yard NCAA freestyle championship ā€“ tying with trans athlete Lia Thomas ā€“ took to X to speak on the issue and openly express her transphobia.

In the post, Gaines repeatedly misgenders Fleming, also adding that it is ā€˜unfair and dangerous,ā€™ to allow transfemme athletes to compete in womenā€™s sports. 

Gaines is one of many far-right athletes who have either tied or lost a match to a trans athlete, then made it their mission to cast trans athletes out of womenā€™s sports. 

Equality Californiaā€™s Executive Director released a statement regarding the issue.

ā€œEquality California stands with San Jose State University and appreciates their strong support for their student athletes. All students deserve a safe and inclusive environment where they can thrive without fear or anxiety while being themselves,ā€ said executive director Tony Hoang. 

The San Jose State womenā€™s volleyball team is scheduled to go against San Diego State on Oct 10.

Los Angeles Blade will continue to cover the issue as the story develops.

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JK Rowling condemns history-making transgender Paralympian

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Valentina Petrillo ran her personal best Monday at the Paralympics in Paris, but it was not enough to qualify for Tuesdayā€™s finals in the 400m T12 competition. Losing to two cisgender women was also not enough to quell a social media firestorm of transphobia and hate directed at the first out trans Paralympian runner.

Hajar Safarzadeh Ghahderijani of Iran was first across the finish line, followed by Venezuelaā€™s Alejandra Perez. Petrillo, the Italian sprinter, finished third with 57.58.

ā€œI tried until the end, I couldnā€™t do it,ā€ Petrillo, 51, told reporters after the race. ā€œI missed that last straight. I pushed harder than this morning and I tried. They are stronger than me. There is nothing I can do. I had to do 56 to get into the final. Itā€™s impossible, 57.58. I have to be happy even though Iā€™m a little upset.ā€ 

Petrillo also spoke indirectly about haters, but what concerned her most, she said, was the perspective of her son, 9-year-old Lorenzo, who calls her ā€œDad.ā€ 

ā€œI hope my son is proud of me,ā€ Petrillo, said, amid tears. ā€œThatā€™s important to me because Iā€™m a trans dad, itā€™s not everyoneā€™s dream dad. But I hope he will be proud of me. I hope he will always stand by me, I hope that he loves me even if I am like this. I canā€™t help it if Iā€™m like this, Iā€™m sorry. Donā€™t treat trans people badly. We suffer. Itā€™s not fair. We donā€™t hurt anybody.ā€ 

JK Rowling disagrees. 

In a social media post on what was Twitter, the outspoken opponent of trans rights and inclusion denounced Petrillo as an ā€œout and proud cheat.ā€ 

Others condemned Petrillo as a ā€œpervert,ā€ a ā€œdisgraceā€ and of course, a man, and a ā€œbiological maleā€ who ā€œrobbed a young disabled womanā€ of her chance to compete.Ā 

Petrillo has one more chance to compete for a medal this Friday in the 200m T12 visual impairment competition. Sheā€™ll compete against Katrin Mueller-Rottgardt of Germany.

ā€œBasically, everyone should live how they like in everyday life,ā€ Mueller-Rottgardt told the German tabloid Bild. ā€œBut I find it difficult in professional sports. She lived and trained for a long time as a man, so thereā€™s a possibility that physical conditions are different than for someone who comes into the world as a woman. So, she could have advantages from it.ā€ 

For her part, Petrillo is not letting detractors stop her from running as the woman she is and living as the woman she is. 

ā€œThere are lots of people dying only for being trans, people are killed because they are trans, people commit suicide because they are trans and lose their jobs, or are not included in sport,ā€ she said. ā€œBut I made it. If I can make it, everyone can make it.ā€ 

As for so-called ā€œadvantages,” Petrillo cites a study funded by the IOC ā€” and published in April in the British Journal of Sports Medicine ā€” showing that trans women are actually at a physical disadvantage compared to cis women across several areas, including lung function and lower body strength.

ā€œThis means rather that I have a disadvantage, because apart from anything else, going through hormonal treatment means I am going against my body so against the biology of my body and thatā€™s certainly something thatā€™s not good for it,ā€ Petrillo told the Associated Press in an interview in a suburb of Bologna, where she lives and works in the IT sector. 

She was diagnosed with Stargardt disease, a degenerative eye condition, at the age of 14, and can only see 1/50thĀ of what most people can. Petrillo cannot drive and uses public transportation to get around, and told me in aĀ 2020 podcast interview thatĀ the trauma of her disability has haunted her all her years.

ā€œI tried to lead a normal life as much as possible,ā€ she said through a translator.Ā Ā 

Although her condition forced her to give up running as a teen, she picked it up again in her 40s, telling me it felt empowering, ā€œKnowing I have two good legs,ā€ she said. ā€œRunning is life.ā€

But it was not enough. Petrillo, who was raised as a boy, had been keeping a secret since she was a child, saying that even at age seven, she knew who she was. ā€œI didnā€™t feel like myself.ā€

ā€œI decided to transition after years of fighting myself and not understanding what was the problem,ā€ Petrillo said. ā€œIt was a very difficult decision.ā€ 

Petrillo came out to her wife, Elena, in 2017, just one year after they wed. With Elenaā€™s support, she transitioned in 2018 and started her medical transition the following January. They remained married, for a time, and have another child in addition to Lorenzo. ā€œMy wife is very supportive,ā€ Petrillo told me in 2020. ā€œ99 percent of the stories end up in divorce, but my wife is the most important love of my life.ā€ 

Elena and Valentina have since divorced but remain friends. She and Lorenzo and Petrilloā€™s brother, Francesco, were in Paris to cheer her on.

ā€œFamily is everything,ā€ she said this week.Ā 

Petrillo won 11 national competitions in the male T12 category between 2015 and 2018, then won gold in her first official race as the woman she is, in the 100m, 200m and 400m T12 events at the 2020 Italian Paralympics Championship. Last year, she won two bronzes at the World Para Athletics Championships. 

In that competition, she narrowly beat Melani Berges of Spain, who placed fourth in the semifinal. That meant Berges didnā€™t qualify for the final and missed her chance to make it to the Paralympics.

Calling it an ā€œinjustice,ā€ Berges told Spanish sports site Relevo that she ā€œaccepts and respectsā€ trans people, but ā€œwe are no longer talking about daily life, we are talking about sport, which requires strength, a physique.ā€

The International Paralympic Committee says it ā€œwelcomesā€ Petrillo, who is not the first out trans Paralympian. That honor belongs to Dutch discus thrower Ingrid van Kranen, who finished ninth in the 2016 Rio Games. The rules of the World Para Athletics organization state a person who is legally recognized as a woman is eligible to compete in female categories. She legally changed her name and gender in 2023. 

Back in 2020, Petrillo told me the 200m race she will compete in this Friday is her favorite, because of the performance of her personal hero, 1980 Olympic champion Pietro Mennea, who holds Italyā€™s world record in the event.Ā 

ā€œIā€™m dreaming about this,ā€ she said, recalling the memory of seeing him compete when she was seven years old. ā€œThe determination that Mennea showed was something he taught all of us. That is how I feel when I am running. That same determination and that same drive.ā€ And she said again, ā€œRunning is life.ā€  

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JK Rowling, Elon Musk sued for cyberbullying Olympic womenā€™s boxing champion

Imane Khelif accuses author, mogul of online harassment

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Imane Khelif, left, and Angela Carini, right. Khelif has filed a lawsuit that accuses JK Rowling and Elon Musk of cyberbullying. ("Today" show screenshot via YouTube)

Author JK Rowling has been uncharacteristically silent on social media in the 24 hours since she and the worldā€™s richest person ā€” Elon Musk ā€” reportedly were named in a criminal complaint filed with French authorities by a female Olympian boxer from Algeria. 

Variety reported on Tuesday that the lawsuit alleges they committed ā€œacts of aggravated cyber harassmentā€ against newly crowned Olympic champion Imane Khelif during the Paris Summer Games. Khelif is a woman who has been accused of being a man, of being transgender, and of cheating to compete in the Olympics. 

Nabil Boudi, the Paris-based attorney of Khelif, confirmed to Variety that both Musk and Rowling were mentioned in the complaint, which was posted on Aug. 9 to the anti-online hatred center of the Paris Prosecutorā€™s Office.

The Paris Prosecutorā€™s Officeā€™s National Center for the Fight Against Online Hatred confirmed in a statement to Variety that it received the complaint filed by Khelif, and announced it had launched an investigation that would include anti-transgender comments by GOP presidential nominee Donald Trump. 

ā€œOn Aug. 13, (The National Center for the Fight Against Online Hatred) contacted the OCLCH (Central Office for the Fight Against Crimes Against Humanity and Hate Crimes) to conduct an investigation into the counts of cyber harassment due to gender, public insult because of gender, public incitement to discrimination and public insult because of origin.ā€

Although the lawsuit names ā€œX,ā€ that does not represent the social media platform owned by Musk that had been known as Twitter. Under French law, ā€œXā€ means that the lawsuit was filed against unknown persons, to ā€œensure that the ā€˜prosecution has all the latitude to be able to investigate against all people,ā€ including those who may have written hateful messages under pseudonyms, said Boudi.

ā€œJK Rowling and Elon Musk are named in the lawsuit, among others,ā€ he told Variety, and explained why Trump would be part of the investigation. ā€œTrump tweeted, so whether or not he is named in our lawsuit, he will inevitably be looked into as part of the prosecution.ā€

Khelif won the Olympic gold medal in the womenā€™s 66 kilogram boxing competition on Aug. 10 and has for weeks been the target of online hate over her gender eligibility. She was born female and does not identify as trans or intersex. The International Olympic Committee has stood by her, declaring, ā€œscientifically, this is not a man fighting a woman.ā€

That didnā€™t deter Rowling, who told her 14.2 million followers Khelif was a man who was ā€œenjoying the distress of a woman heā€™s just punched in the head.ā€ Her post included a picture from Khelifā€™s fight with Italian boxer Angela Carini.

Musk shared a post from anti-trans activist and former college swimmer Riley Gaines that claimed ā€œmen donā€™t belong in womenā€™s sports.ā€ The owner of X, Tesla and SpaceX endorsed her message with one word: ā€œAbsolutely.ā€

Trump posted a message on his own platform, Truth Social, with a picture from the fight with Carina accompanied by a promise in all-caps: ā€œI will keep men out of womenā€™s sports!ā€

ā€œWhat weā€™re asking is that the prosecution investigates not only these people but whoever it feels necessary,ā€ said Boudi. ā€œIf the case goes to court, they will stand trial.ā€ He added that while the lawsuit was filed in France, ā€œit could target personalities overseas,ā€ pointing out that ā€œthe prosecutorā€™s office for combating online hate speech has the possibility to make requests for mutual legal assistance with other countries.ā€ 

Among the potential other targets: Trumpā€™s running mate, U.S. Sen. JD Vance (R-Ohio), U.S. Rep. Marjorie Taylor Greene (R-Ga.), right-wing media personality Charlie Kirk, and boxer and wrestler Logan Paul, all of whom attacked Khelif on social media. Paul posted on X following her win against Carini: ā€œThis is the purest form of evil unfolding right before our eyes. A man was allowed to beat up a woman on a global stage, crushing her lifeā€™s dream while fighting for her deceased father. This delusion must end.ā€

Fox News shared Paulā€™s quote. 

Paul later deleted the post and admitted that he ā€œmight be guilty of spreading misinformation.ā€

Khelifā€™s coach, Pedro Diaz, told Variety that the bullying Khelif endured during the Paris games ā€œincredibly affected herā€ and ā€œeveryone around her.ā€ He advised her to stop looking at social media so the distraction would not impact her performance in the ring, where she ultimately won a gold medal. 

According to Variety, Khelifā€™s complaint for online harassment is actually one of several that have launched investigations regarding the Paris Olympics. Prosecutors are also investigating a complaint filed by Thomas Jolly, the artistic director of the opening and closing ceremonies. As the Los Angeles Blade reported, one part of the opening ceremony drew condemnations and online criticism. Jolly said he was ā€œthe target of threatening messages and insults.ā€ DJ Barbara Butch claimed she had received online harassment, death threats, and insults following the opening ceremony.

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Boston Red Sox player suspended for yelling anti-gay slur at fan

Jarren Duran issues apology to LGBTQ community

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The Boston Red Sox on Aug. 12 suspended for two games its all-star outfielder Jarren Duran one day after he shouted an anti-gay slur at a fan who had been heckling him as Duran stood at home plate in the sixth inning of a game against the Houston Astros at Bostonā€™s Fenway Park stadium. 

Multiple news media outlets reported that a microphone at the stadium near where Duran stood picked up him yelling the slur. Most media outlets, including the Washington Post and the New York Times, did not report the exact words he shouted. But CNN reported on its website that Duran told the fan to ā€œshut up you f**king f***ot.ā€  

According to CNN, after the game ended Duran, 27, issued an apology in a statement released by the Red Sox.

ā€œDuring tonightā€™s game, I used a truly horrific word when responding to a fan,ā€ Duran said in the statement. ā€œI feel awful knowing how many people I offended and disappointed. I apologize to the entire Red Sox organization, but more importantly to the entire LGBTQ community,ā€ he said. 

ā€œOur young fans are supposed to be able to look up to me as a role model, but tonight I fell far short of that responsibility,ā€ his statement continues. ā€œI will use this opportunity to educate myself and my teammates and to grow as a person.ā€ 

CNN reports that the Red Sox announced on Aug. 12, the day following the Sunday game, that the team will donate Duranā€™s two-day salary during the time of his suspension to the LGBTQ organization Federation of Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays, known as PFLAG. 

ā€œThe Red Sox addressed this incident with Jarren immediately following todayā€™s game,ā€ a statement released by the Red Sox says. ā€œWe echo Jarrenā€™s apology to our fans, especially the LGBTQ community. We strive to be an organization that welcomes all fans to Fenway Park, and we will continue to educate our employees, players, coaches and staff on the importance of inclusivity,ā€ the statement says as reported by the online sports publication The Athletic. 

Most of the media accounts of Jarren Duranā€™s anti-gay slur and apology did not report that the incident took place about two months after the Red Sox hosted their 11th annual LGBTQ Pride Night at Fenway Park on July 11 of this year. The Red Sox are among several major league baseball teams, including D.C.ā€™s Washington Nationals, that host ā€œPrideā€ games at their stadiums. 

The New York Times and other media outlets reported that Duran, who was named Most Valuable Player at last monthā€™s baseball All-Star Game, reiterated his apology to reporters in interviews on the day following the incident. 

ā€œThere was no intent behind the word that was used,ā€ the Times quoted him as saying. ā€œIt was just the heat of the moment and just happened to be said.ā€ According to the Times, Duran added, ā€œI actually apologized to the umpire and the catcher for my actions because they were right there. They heard me say it.ā€ 

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Tom Daley announces retirement

Gay five-time diving medalist said ‘it feels like the right time’

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The world has witnessed beautiful, brown-eyed Tom Daley dive into a pool as part of a competition for the last time. The Summer Olympics in Paris, where the five-time Olympian won silver in the 10m synchronized event, turns out to have been his swan dive. 

ā€œIt was emotional at the end, up there on the platform, knowing it was going to be my last competitive dive,ā€ Daley told British Vogue in an interview published Monday. ā€œBut I have to make the decision at some point, and it feels like the right time. Itā€™s the right time to call it a day.ā€

The 30-year-old athlete from Devon, renowned as the UK’s most decorated diver, said he had trepidations about announcing he is officially done with diving. 

ā€œIt feels very, very surreal,ā€ he told Vogue. ā€œI felt so incredibly nervous going into this, knowing it was my last Olympics. There was a lot of pressure and expectation. I was eager for it to be done,ā€ he said. ā€œBut when I walked out, and saw my husband [American filmmaker Dustin Lance Black] and kids [Robbie and Phoenix] and my friends and family in the audience, I was like, you know what? This is exactly why I did this. Iā€™m here, and no matter what happens in the competition itself, Iā€™m going to be happy.ā€

Daley publicly came out as gay in a YouTube video in 2013, following a tabloid headline that  declared ā€œTom Daley, ā€˜Iā€™m Not Gay.ā€ Up until that point, he had neither directly denied nor confirmed his orientation publicly. 

ā€œIt infuriated me that somebody would say that. I never wanted to be seen as lying or hiding from who I was,ā€ Daley told the interviewer.

ā€œWith every Olympics, there are more and more out athletes,ā€ he said, mindful of one tabulation that estimates there were 195 openly LGBTQ competitors in Paris. Thatā€™s a huge difference from a decade ago, he noted. ā€œItā€™s powerful,ā€ said Daley, while acknowledging that many closeted male athletes fear coming out and are reluctant to take that step. 

ā€œI think there is a lot of pressure for when people do come out to be an activist and to be outspoken. And sometimes thatā€™s just not in some peopleā€™s nature,ā€ he said. ā€œI think this might be part of the reason why possibly more people havenā€™t felt as comfortable with coming out. I also think that [the world of sport] is such a heteronormative space ā€¦ lots of queer kids, when theyā€™re younger, have this automatic feeling that they shouldnā€™t fit into sports, so they donā€™t pursue them. I hope weā€™ll see more in the future.ā€

As for Daleyā€™s past, his accomplishments on the springboard are legendary. He made his Olympic debut at Beijing 2008 at the age of 14. He won gold and bronze medals in Tokyo, bronzes in London 2012 and Rio 2016. Daleyā€™s gold came in the 10m synchronized event in Tokyo in 2021 alongside Matty Lee. He was back to defend his title in Paris after being convinced by his son Robbie to return to the sport. Daley won silver in the French capital alongside Noah Williams. 

All told, he has since won a combined total of 11 World, Commonwealth and European Championship gold medals, and was the first Team GB diver to win four Olympic medals, a record he has now surpassed with five. 

Before coming out, Daley was asked why he thought he had such a large gay following. 

ā€œProbably because I am half-naked all the time,ā€ he replied. And as proof thatā€™s still true, his latest TikTok and Instagram posts are titled ā€œBRAT Summer Olympics.ā€

Daley now has more than five million followers across his social media platforms.Ā 

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