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Mexico soccer fans punished for anti-gay slur chanted at games
FIFA sanctions team by banning spectators from first 2 World Cup qualifier matches
MEXICO CITY – When the Mexico menās national team play their all-important 2022 World Cup qualifiers come September and October, they will do so without a single fan cheering them on. As Yahoo Sports first reported, FIFA has sanctioned the team and ordered it to play to an empty home stadium because its fans wonāt stop using a controversial chantāwidely seen as anti-gayāduring matches.
For years, fans have shouted āputoā during opposing goal kicks at almost all Mexican men’s national team games, a word that one soccer fans site described this way:
āFor some, itās a harmless word that theyāve been shouting at opposing goalkeepers for decades. For others, itās a salty, inappropriate swear word youāll hear at some soccer games. And for many others itās a homophobic slur that denigrates LGBT individuals and makes attending a soccer game feel like an unsafe space.ā
āOn behalf of the FMF, the players, the Liga MX, the clubs and all the national teams: Let’s stop. Let’s stop the fucking cry, please,ā said Yon De Luisa, president of the Mexican Soccer Federation (FMF) at a press conference Friday, as reported by El Economista. āIt is taking us away from our team and although many think it is fun, it is not.ā
Coach Gerardo Martino, added: āI invite our fans to make a reflection so that they understand once and for all the meaning and scope of this type of attitude. They are great at cheering, but we ask that you focus exclusively on the selection. We have a great concern.ā
The punishment of banning spectators will reportedly impact two World Cup qualifying matches against Jamaica and Canada in September and October at Mexico Cityās Aztec Stadium. It is in addition to a fine of 60,000 Swiss francsāroughly $65,000 specifically being levied for the chanting of āEh, putoā at two Olympic qualifying games held in March in Guadalajara, according to Mexico News Daily. An investigation has also reportedly been opened into chanting of the word at Mexico’s friendly against Iceland last month in Arlington, Texas.
Despite what the coach and FMF president said, there are many straight soccer fans who argue against āputoā being considered a slur. Soccer writer Elliot Turner, who has lived and worked in Spain, Argentina, the Dominican Republic, and Nicaragua, explained that in a 2014 piece for Fusion:
āIn Spanish, the term puta means prostitute, and Spanish, like other romance languages, has gendered nouns (a noun is either male or female). Thus, the term puto is the masculine form, meaning a male prostitute. (The feminine form is puta.)
Did you just get a big tax bill from Uncle Sam? Youāre likely to say āputos impuestos!ā Did your boss just give you a shitty assignment? You may mutter under your breath āputo trabajo.ā
āPutoā is thus used similarly to ābloodyā in the United Kingdom and āfuckingā in the United States. Itās pervasive. The chant only reflects the ugly linguistic reality of Latin America and Spain. Everything that provokes rage is a āputo.āā
āPutoā can also mean ācoward,ā Turner argues, and writes āthe typical El Tri fan means ācoward,ā not āfagā or āqueer.ā And contextually, that has some support. Fans only use the term when the opposing goalkeeper punts the ball up the field.ā
But because it also means āfaggot,ā a clearly hateful slur, Turner concludes the puto chant is āa form of prejudice and homophobia.ā
This year, Mexican officials have stepped up efforts to stop the chant but social media campaigns and stadium announcements have failed, according to the Washington Post.
The chant was widely used at Mexico’s June 3 and 6 games against Costa Rica and the U.S., but as Yahoo Sports reported, officials enacted only Step 1 of FIFA’s three-step protocol, which call for match stoppages and PA announcements whenever the chant is heard; temporary match suspensions ā with players returning to locker rooms ā if the chant is heard again; and forfeits if it arises a third time.
Whether having to watch the team on TV, playing in front of 87-thousand empty seats, has an impact on this fan tradition remains to be seen.
FIFA has announced Saudi Arabia will host the 2034 World Cup, despite concerns over its human rights record that includes the death penalty for homosexuality.
The Associated Press reported FIFA confirmed the decision on Dec. 18. The AP noted Saudi Arabia is the only country that bid to host the 2034 World Cup.
āThis is a historic moment for Saudi Arabia and a dream come true for all our 32 million people who simply love the game,ā said Sport Minister Prince Abdulaziz bin Turki Al- Faisal, who is also president of the Saudi Olympic and Paralympic Committee, in a statement the Saudi Press Agency posted to its website.
Saudi Arabia is among the handful of countries in which consensual same-sex sexual relations remain punishable by death.
A U.S. intelligence report concluded Saudi Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman ālikely approvedā the murder of Jamal Khashoggi, a Washington Post columnist, inside the Saudi Consulate in Istanbul in 2018. A federal judge in 2022 dismissed a lawsuit against Prince Mohammed after the Biden-Harris administration said he was immune to the lawsuit because he is the countryās prime minister.
Human rights activists have also criticized the Saudi government over the treatment of women, migrant workers, and other groups in the country.
“No one should be surprised by this,ā Cyd Zeigler, Jr., co-founder of Outsports.com, an LGBTQ sports website, told the Washington Blade in an email after FIFA confirmed Saudi Arabia will host the 2034 World Cup. āFIFA, the International Olympic Committee, and many other world governing bodies routinely turn to authoritarian countries with terrible human-rights records to host major sporting events. There are simply few other countries willing to spend the billions of dollars it takes to build the needed infrastructure.ā
Peter Tatchell, a long-time LGBTQ+ activist from the U.K. who is director of the Peter Tatchell Foundation, in a statement described FIFAās decision as āa betrayal of the values that football should stand for: Inclusivity, fairness, and respect for human rights.ā
āThis is not about football; itās about sportswashing,ā said Tatchell. āThe Saudi regime is using the World Cup to launder its international image and distract from its brutal abuses. By granting them this platform, FIFA is complicit in whitewashing their crimes.ā
Qatar, which borders Saudi Arabia, hosted the 2022 World Cup.
Consensual same-sex sexual relations remain criminalized in Qatar.
āSaudi Arabia was the only country to bid for the 2034 FIFA World Cup,ā said Zeigler. āSo, until FIFA, the IOC (International Olympic Committee) and other governing bodies ban major human-rights violators from hosting, we’ll continue to see events like this in Saudi Arabia, China, Qatar, and other countries with terrible LGBTQ rights issues.”
The Blade has reached out to FIFA and the Saudi government for comment.
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Controversy grows over member of Calif. universityās womenās volleyball team
Coach suspended, NCAA sued, more rivals forfeit
San Jose State Universityās women volleyball team has collected yet another W by forfeit ā its seventh so far this season ā as controversy swirls around one player on its roster. Sheās one of the seniors, and she has been dragged in the media by her own co-captain, who outed her as transgender.
The Washington Blade is not naming this student athlete since neither she nor the school have confirmed or even commented on her gender identity.
SJSU visited San Diego last weekend for a match before the Aztecsā biggest home crowd of the season ā including protesters waving āSave Womenās Sportsā banners and booing one player on the Spartans team in particular: The woman who is reported to be trans.
Security was tight, with metal detectors and extra guards and police officers present. Video posted to YouTube by a right-wing sports media site ā which names the player ā shows an angry fan arguing with security about his First Amendment rights.
Video recorded during Nov. 9ās game shows a player for San Diego was injured following a spike by the player rumored to be trans, and had to be helped off the court. However, the video clearly shows that player was injured by landing poorly on one foot, not as a result of the spike.
The Aztecs defeated the Spartans 3-1, but San Jose has still punched its ticket to the conference finals, thanks to its record number of forfeits.
Wyoming was set to visit SJSU Thursday, but for the second time is joining other universities that have forfeited games against the Spartans, all without providing a reason. Boise State announced it will forfeit an upcoming match set for Nov. 21, its second forfeit against SJSU.
In September, the Spartansā co-captain, senior Brooke Slusser, outed her own teammate, the player at the center of this controversy, in joining a federal lawsuit against the NCAA spearheaded by anti-trans inclusion activist and former college athlete Riley Gaines.
Slusser said in the lawsuit and in subsequent interviews that the player in question shouldnāt be on her team. The suit claims the NCAAās policy on trans athletes violates Title IX by allowing āmenā to compete in women’s sports and use women’s locker rooms where they display āfull male genitalia.ā
The NCAA policy for trans athletes participating in womenās volleyball aligns with that of USA Volleyball, which requires trans female athletes to suppress their testosterone below 10 nmol/L for a period of one year before competition. That is also how the NCAA determines eligibility. SJSU has stated repeatedly that all its players are eligible.
The lawsuit also asks the NCAA to revoke any titles or records won by trans female athletes in women’s competitions, which seems to be specifically aimed at stripping out trans NCAA champions Lia Thomas and CeCĆ© Telfer of their titles in swimming and track and field, respectively.Ā
Prior to this season, the player rumored to be trans did not attract any attention other than being a successful starter, like Slusser. But now that she is in the media spotlight, Slusser has come forward to tell right wing media, including Megyn Kelly, why she feels another woman two inches taller than she is poses a danger.Ā
“I don’t feel safe,” Slusser said on “The Megyn Kelly Show” last month. “I’ve gone to my coaches and said I refuse to play against [her] ā¦ It’s not safe.”
In the video, both Kelly and Slusser refer to the player as āhimā and a āman,ā and name her.
Now comes another twist: San Jose State University suspended associate head coach Melissa Batie-Smoose with pay, indefinitely, after she filed a Title IX complaint against SJSU. She claims the player Slusser identified as trans conspired with an opponent to help the team lose a match and injure Slusser. Batie-Smoose named the player in question in her complaint and on Sept. 23, joined the same lawsuit that Slusser is now a part of.
“Safety is being taken away from women,” Batie-Smoose told Fox News. “Fair play is taken away from women. We need more and more people to do this and fight this fight because womenās sports, as we know it right now will be forever changed.”
Media reporting on the suspension, including Fox News, continue to name the athlete in question, with some also reporting what they say is the athleteās birth name.
San Jose State released a statement following the suspension of Batie-Smoose: “The associate head coach of the San Jose State University womenās volleyball team is not with the team at this time, and we will not provide further information on this matter,” the team said.
SJSU Coach Todd Kress told ESPN that reports saying that any member of the Spartans colluded with their opponent are ālittered with lies.ā
The Spartans are currently among the top six finishers in the Mountain West Conference that will qualify to compete in the conference tournament scheduled for Nov. 27-30.
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University of Nevada forfeits game rather than play possible trans athlete
Womenās volleyball team cites ānot enough players to competeā
For the fifth time, a womenās volleyball team has chosen to forfeit instead of play against San Jose State University, because of rumors that one of its players is a transgender woman.
The University of Nevada, Reno, officially announced on Friday that it would forfeit Saturdayās game against the SJSU Spartans. This followed an announcement by Wolf Pack players who said they “refuse to participate in any match that advances injustice against female athletes,” without providing further details.
Originally, Nevada’s athletic department had said the program would not back out from the match, citing state equality laws, but also said that no players would be disciplined if they chose to not participate.
āThe vast majority of our team decided this is something we wanted to take a stand on,ā Nevada team captain Sia Liilii told Fox News. āWe didnāt want to play against a male player.”
āIn all of our team meetings it just kept coming back to the fact that men do not belong in womenās sports. If youāre born a biological male, you donāt belong in womenās sports. Itās not even about this individual athlete. Itās about fair competition and safety for everyone.ā
Outsports and several conservative and right-wing websites have identified the player who is rumored to be trans, but the Los Angeles Blade has opted to not do so since she herself has not come forward to either acknowledge or deny she is trans.Ā
As ESPN reported, Nevada follows Southern Utah, Boise State, Wyoming, and Utah State in canceling games against the Spartans. Boise State, Wyoming, Utah State, and Nevada are all members of the Mountain West Conference, so those contests are considered forfeits and count as valuable wins in the league standings for San Jose State.
Riley Gaines, the anti-trans inclusion activist for the Independent Womenās Forum has joined the chorus in claiming the Spartansā roster includes a trans woman.
If you're wondering why teams are forfeiting against @SJSU, here's the reason.
Last night another woman was smashed in the face by a kill from a man posing as a woman.
It's unfair, unsafe, and regressive, yet our "leaders" remain silent. pic.twitter.com/OS15AFxQsp
— Riley Gaines (@Riley_Gaines_) October 18, 2024
Despite this, neither San Jose State nor any of the other forfeiting teams have said the universityās women’s volleyball team has a trans player. SJSU issued a statement defending its roster.
āOur athletes all comply with NCAA and Mountain West Conference policies and they are eligible to play under the rules of those organizations. We will continue to take measures to prioritize the health and safety of our students while they pursue their earned opportunities to compete,ā the statement read.
The governors of Idaho, Nevada, Utah, and Wyoming ā all of whom are members of the Republican Party ā have issued public statements supporting the cancellations, claiming itās in the interest of fairness in women’s sports. This week, Donald Trump, the GOP presidential nominee and former president, spoke at a Fox News televised town hall when asked about trans athletes in women’s sports.
āWeāre not going to let it happen,ā Trump said. āWe stop it, we stop it, we absolutely stop it. We canāt have it. You just ban it. The president bans it. You donāt let it happen. Itās not a big deal.ā
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Homophobes threaten lives of WNBA star and wife
New York Liberty forward Breanna Stewart received anonymous emails
While the New York Liberty are focused on defeating the Minnesota Lynx in the WNBA finals, one of its stars has come under attack from anti-gay bigots who made death threats against that player and her wife, according to the Associated Press.
The homophobic death threats targeted forward Breanna Stewart and her wife, retired Phoenix Mercury guard Marta Xargay. Stewart said they arrived in Xargayās email inbox.
āThe fact it came to Martaās email is something she (had to) see. The level of closeness was a little bit different,ā she said. āMake sure that myself and Marta are okay, but that our kids are the safest.ā
Stewart, the two-time MVP known to teammates and on social media as āStewie,ā told reporters Tuesday she notified her team about the emails, The Liberty then escalated it to WNBA security.
āWeāre taking the proper precautions,ā Stewart said, noting that she felt the Libertyās winning streak was only encouraging more threats. New York is leading their opponents two games to one after Tuesday nightās 80-77 win in Minneapolis. āWe love that people are engaged in our sport, but not to the point where thereās threats or harassment or homophobic comments being made.ā
Xargay filed a complaint with the New York Police Department at the advice of the team and security, said Stewart.
āBeing in the finals and everything like that it makes sense to file something formal,ā she said.
The NYPD confirmed to the Associated Press that it received a report of aggravated harassment involving emails sent to āa 33-year-old victim,ā said a police spokesperson. The departmentās media relations team added that the NYPD hate crimes task force is investigating the threats.
Although Stewart told reporters she has an agency that reviews most of the messages she receives, she was stunned to learn from her wife about the hateful messages that wound up in Xargayās inbox. She said thatās why she decided to let fans know thereās no justification for hate.
āFor me to use this platform to let people know itās unacceptable to bring to our sport,ā she said.
Last month, WNBA players and their union representatives called out league commissioner Cathy Engelbert for failing to condemn a spike in racist attacks on players. Itās been a long-standing problem exacerbated by the rivalry between Indiana Fever star Caitlin Clark and the Chicago Skyās Angel Reese. The league has never been more popular than it is now, and with that success, fans have escalated their criticism of players.
Since then, Engelbert has addressed the rise in player harassment on social media in an address prior to Game 1 of the WNBA finals one week ago.
āIt just is something where we have to continue to be a voice for this, a voice against it, condemning it, and making sure that we find every opportunity to support our players, who have been dealing with this for much longer than this year,ā Engelbert said.
In her address, Engelbert pledged the league will work with the playersā union to figure out what they can do together to combat it.
āWe continue to emphasize that there is absolutely no room for hateful or threatening comments made about players, teams or anyone affiliated with the WNBA,ā a league spokesperson said in response to questions about the death threats made against Stewart and Xargay. āWeāre aware of the most recent matter and are working with league and team security as well as law enforcement on appropriate security measures.ā
The Liberty play the Lynx again Friday night in Minneapolis.
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Homophobes threaten lives of WNBA star and wife
New York Liberty forward Breanna Stewart and Marta Xargay received anonymous emails
While the New York Liberty are focused on defeating the Minnesota Lynx in the WNBA finals, one of its stars has come under attack from anti-gay bigots who made death threats against that player and her wife, according to the Associated Press.
The homophobic death threats targeted forward Breanna Stewart and her wife, retired Phoenix Mercury guard Marta Xargay. Stewart said they arrived in Xargayās email inbox.
āThe fact it came to Martaās email is something she (had to) see. The level of closeness was a little bit different,ā she said. āMake sure that myself and Marta are okay, but that our kids are the safest.ā
Stewart, the two-time MVP known to teammates and on social media as āStewie,ā told reporters Tuesday she notified her team about the emails, The Liberty then escalated it to WNBA security.
āWeāre taking the proper precautions,ā Stewart said, noting that she felt the Libertyās winning streak was only encouraging more threats. New York is leading their opponents two games to one after Tuesday nightās 80-77 win in Minneapolis. āWe love that people are engaged in our sport, but not to the point where thereās threats or harassment or homophobic comments being made.ā
Xargay filed a complaint with the New York Police Department at the advice of the team and security, said Stewart.
āBeing in the finals and everything like that it makes sense to file something formal,ā she said.
The NYPD confirmed to the Associated Press that it received a report of aggravated harassment involving emails sent to āa 33-year-old victim,ā said a police spokesperson. The departmentās media relations team added that the NYPD hate crimes task force is investigating the threats.
Although Stewart told reporters she has an agency that reviews most of the messages she receives, she was stunned to learn from her wife about the hateful messages that wound up in Xargayās inbox. She said thatās why she decided to let fans know thereās no justification for hate.
āFor me to use this platform to let people know itās unacceptable to bring to our sport,ā she said.
Last month, WNBA players and their union representatives called out league commissioner Cathy Engelbert for failing to condemn a spike in racist attacks on players. Itās been a long-standing problem exacerbated by the rivalry between Indiana Fever star Caitlin Clark and the Chicago Skyās Angel Reese. The league has never been more popular than it is now, and with that success, fans have escalated their criticism of players.
Since then, Engelbert has addressed the rise in player harassment on social media in an address prior to Game 1 of the WNBA finals one week ago.
āIt just is something where we have to continue to be a voice for this, a voice against it, condemning it, and making sure that we find every opportunity to support our players, who have been dealing with this for much longer than this year,ā Engelbert said.
In her address, Engelbert pledged the league will work with the playersā union to figure out what they can do together to combat it.
āWe continue to emphasize that there is absolutely no room for hateful or threatening comments made about players, teams or anyone affiliated with the WNBA,ā a league spokesperson said in response to questions about the death threats made against Stewart and Xargay. āWeāre aware of the most recent matter and are working with league and team security as well as law enforcement on appropriate security measures.ā
The Liberty play the Lynx again Friday night in Minneapolis.
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Forfeitures against San Jose State over trans athlete on roster spark controversy, backlash
Boise State, University of Wyoming and Utah State joined Southern Utah in forfeiting against San Jose State this season.
Blaire Fleming is at the center of a national debate over transgender athletes joining gendered sports at the collegiate level, after her team won fourth match by account of forfeiture.
Fleming made headlines earlier this year as her former roommate and team co-captain, Brooke Slusser, filed a class-action lawsuit against her and the National Collegiate Athletics Association. Slusser took to the Independent Council on Womenās Sports to file the class action lawsuit along with other cisgender athletes.
They claim that allowing Fleming and other transfemme athletes compete in womenās sports is in violation of Title IX, which does not permit trans athletes to compete against biological women, or use womenās restrooms.
The move to forfeit on account of a trans athlete, sparked controversy and driving the three other universities to forfeit in the recent weeks.
San Jose State responded to the latest forfeiture by stating that outing Fleming would have violated school policy.
The NCAA stated that it will ācontinue to promote Title IX, make unprecedented investments in womenās sports and ensure fair competition for all student-athletes in all NCAA championships.ā
The controversy gained more traction as cisgender, far-right, voices joined the conversation.
Riley Gaines, a former competitive swimmer who came in fifth place in a 200-yard NCAA freestyle championship ā tying with trans athlete Lia Thomas ā took to X to speak on the issue and openly express her transphobia.
In the post, Gaines repeatedly misgenders Fleming, also adding that it is āunfair and dangerous,ā to allow transfemme athletes to compete in womenās sports.
Gaines is one of many far-right athletes who have either tied or lost a match to a trans athlete, then made it their mission to cast trans athletes out of womenās sports.
Equality Californiaās Executive Director released a statement regarding the issue.
āEquality California stands with San Jose State University and appreciates their strong support for their student athletes. All students deserve a safe and inclusive environment where they can thrive without fear or anxiety while being themselves,ā said executive director Tony Hoang.
The San Jose State womenās volleyball team is scheduled to go against San Diego State on Oct 10.
Los Angeles Blade will continue to cover the issue as the story develops.
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JK Rowling condemns history-making transgender Paralympian
Valentina Petrillo ran her personal best Monday at the Paralympics in Paris, but it was not enough to qualify for Tuesdayās finals in the 400m T12 competition. Losing to two cisgender women was also not enough to quell a social media firestorm of transphobia and hate directed at the first out trans Paralympian runner.
Hajar Safarzadeh Ghahderijani of Iran was first across the finish line, followed by Venezuelaās Alejandra Perez. Petrillo, the Italian sprinter, finished third with 57.58.
āI tried until the end, I couldnāt do it,ā Petrillo, 51, told reporters after the race. āI missed that last straight. I pushed harder than this morning and I tried. They are stronger than me. There is nothing I can do. I had to do 56 to get into the final. Itās impossible, 57.58. I have to be happy even though Iām a little upset.ā
Petrillo also spoke indirectly about haters, but what concerned her most, she said, was the perspective of her son, 9-year-old Lorenzo, who calls her āDad.ā
āI hope my son is proud of me,ā Petrillo, said, amid tears. āThatās important to me because Iām a trans dad, itās not everyoneās dream dad. But I hope he will be proud of me. I hope he will always stand by me, I hope that he loves me even if I am like this. I canāt help it if Iām like this, Iām sorry. Donāt treat trans people badly. We suffer. Itās not fair. We donāt hurt anybody.ā
JK Rowling disagrees.
In a social media post on what was Twitter, the outspoken opponent of trans rights and inclusion denounced Petrillo as an āout and proud cheat.ā
Why all the anger about the inspirational Petrillo? The cheat community has never had this kind of visibility! Out and proud cheats like Petrillo prove the era of cheat-shaming is over. What a role model! I say we give Lance Armstrong his medals back and move on. #Cheats #NoShame pic.twitter.com/bvqhs3DexI
— J.K. Rowling (@jk_rowling) September 2, 2024
Others condemned Petrillo as a āpervert,ā a ādisgraceā and of course, a man, and a ābiological maleā who ārobbed a young disabled womanā of her chance to compete.Ā
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A biologically male runner has just qualified for the Women's 400m T12 semi-finals at the Paris Paralympic Games.
Valentina Petrillo, a father of two, previously won 11 national titles in the men's category before beginning to identify as a "woman." pic.twitter.com/7CqLuFD8dB
— REDUXX (@ReduxxMag) September 2, 2024
The 50-year-old Italian transgender athlete Valentina Petrillo robbed a young disabled woman from a spot in the semifinals of the Paris Paralympics today
Petrillo has previously said that those who don't want Petrillo to compete against females are "on the same level as Hitler." pic.twitter.com/DLU2hxWEVD
— VisegrĆ”d 24 (@visegrad24) September 2, 2024
Petrillo has one more chance to compete for a medal this Friday in the 200m T12 visual impairment competition. Sheāll compete against Katrin Mueller-Rottgardt of Germany.
āBasically, everyone should live how they like in everyday life,ā Mueller-Rottgardt told the German tabloid Bild. āBut I find it difficult in professional sports. She lived and trained for a long time as a man, so thereās a possibility that physical conditions are different than for someone who comes into the world as a woman. So, she could have advantages from it.ā
For her part, Petrillo is not letting detractors stop her from running as the woman she is and living as the woman she is.
āThere are lots of people dying only for being trans, people are killed because they are trans, people commit suicide because they are trans and lose their jobs, or are not included in sport,ā she said. āBut I made it. If I can make it, everyone can make it.ā
As for so-called āadvantages,” Petrillo cites a study funded by the IOC ā and published in April in the British Journal of Sports Medicine ā showing that trans women are actually at a physical disadvantage compared to cis women across several areas, including lung function and lower body strength.
āThis means rather that I have a disadvantage, because apart from anything else, going through hormonal treatment means I am going against my body so against the biology of my body and thatās certainly something thatās not good for it,ā Petrillo told the Associated Press in an interview in a suburb of Bologna, where she lives and works in the IT sector.
She was diagnosed with Stargardt disease, a degenerative eye condition, at the age of 14, and can only see 1/50thĀ of what most people can. Petrillo cannot drive and uses public transportation to get around, and told me in aĀ 2020 podcast interview thatĀ the trauma of her disability has haunted her all her years.
āI tried to lead a normal life as much as possible,ā she said through a translator.Ā Ā
Although her condition forced her to give up running as a teen, she picked it up again in her 40s, telling me it felt empowering, āKnowing I have two good legs,ā she said. āRunning is life.ā
But it was not enough. Petrillo, who was raised as a boy, had been keeping a secret since she was a child, saying that even at age seven, she knew who she was. āI didnāt feel like myself.ā
āI decided to transition after years of fighting myself and not understanding what was the problem,ā Petrillo said. āIt was a very difficult decision.ā
Petrillo came out to her wife, Elena, in 2017, just one year after they wed. With Elenaās support, she transitioned in 2018 and started her medical transition the following January. They remained married, for a time, and have another child in addition to Lorenzo. āMy wife is very supportive,ā Petrillo told me in 2020. ā99 percent of the stories end up in divorce, but my wife is the most important love of my life.ā
Elena and Valentina have since divorced but remain friends. She and Lorenzo and Petrilloās brother, Francesco, were in Paris to cheer her on.
āFamily is everything,ā she said this week.Ā
Petrillo won 11 national competitions in the male T12 category between 2015 and 2018, then won gold in her first official race as the woman she is, in the 100m, 200m and 400m T12 events at the 2020 Italian Paralympics Championship. Last year, she won two bronzes at the World Para Athletics Championships.
In that competition, she narrowly beat Melani Berges of Spain, who placed fourth in the semifinal. That meant Berges didnāt qualify for the final and missed her chance to make it to the Paralympics.
Calling it an āinjustice,ā Berges told Spanish sports site Relevo that she āaccepts and respectsā trans people, but āwe are no longer talking about daily life, we are talking about sport, which requires strength, a physique.ā
The International Paralympic Committee says it āwelcomesā Petrillo, who is not the first out trans Paralympian. That honor belongs to Dutch discus thrower Ingrid van Kranen, who finished ninth in the 2016 Rio Games. The rules of the World Para Athletics organization state a person who is legally recognized as a woman is eligible to compete in female categories. She legally changed her name and gender in 2023.
Back in 2020, Petrillo told me the 200m race she will compete in this Friday is her favorite, because of the performance of her personal hero, 1980 Olympic champion Pietro Mennea, who holds Italyās world record in the event.Ā
āIām dreaming about this,ā she said, recalling the memory of seeing him compete when she was seven years old. āThe determination that Mennea showed was something he taught all of us. That is how I feel when I am running. That same determination and that same drive.ā And she said again, āRunning is life.ā
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JK Rowling, Elon Musk sued for cyberbullying Olympic womenās boxing champion
Imane Khelif accuses author, mogul of online harassment
Author JK Rowling has been uncharacteristically silent on social media in the 24 hours since she and the worldās richest person ā Elon Musk ā reportedly were named in a criminal complaint filed with French authorities by a female Olympian boxer from Algeria.
Variety reported on Tuesday that the lawsuit alleges they committed āacts of aggravated cyber harassmentā against newly crowned Olympic champion Imane Khelif during the Paris Summer Games. Khelif is a woman who has been accused of being a man, of being transgender, and of cheating to compete in the Olympics.
Nabil Boudi, the Paris-based attorney of Khelif, confirmed to Variety that both Musk and Rowling were mentioned in the complaint, which was posted on Aug. 9 to the anti-online hatred center of the Paris Prosecutorās Office.
The Paris Prosecutorās Officeās National Center for the Fight Against Online Hatred confirmed in a statement to Variety that it received the complaint filed by Khelif, and announced it had launched an investigation that would include anti-transgender comments by GOP presidential nominee Donald Trump.
āOn Aug. 13, (The National Center for the Fight Against Online Hatred) contacted the OCLCH (Central Office for the Fight Against Crimes Against Humanity and Hate Crimes) to conduct an investigation into the counts of cyber harassment due to gender, public insult because of gender, public incitement to discrimination and public insult because of origin.ā
Although the lawsuit names āX,ā that does not represent the social media platform owned by Musk that had been known as Twitter. Under French law, āXā means that the lawsuit was filed against unknown persons, to āensure that the āprosecution has all the latitude to be able to investigate against all people,ā including those who may have written hateful messages under pseudonyms, said Boudi.
āJK Rowling and Elon Musk are named in the lawsuit, among others,ā he told Variety, and explained why Trump would be part of the investigation. āTrump tweeted, so whether or not he is named in our lawsuit, he will inevitably be looked into as part of the prosecution.ā
Khelif won the Olympic gold medal in the womenās 66 kilogram boxing competition on Aug. 10 and has for weeks been the target of online hate over her gender eligibility. She was born female and does not identify as trans or intersex. The International Olympic Committee has stood by her, declaring, āscientifically, this is not a man fighting a woman.ā
That didnāt deter Rowling, who told her 14.2 million followers Khelif was a man who was āenjoying the distress of a woman heās just punched in the head.ā Her post included a picture from Khelifās fight with Italian boxer Angela Carini.
Could any picture sum up our new menās rights movement better? The smirk of a male whoās knows heās protected by a misogynist sporting establishment enjoying the distress of a woman heās just punched in the head, and whose lifeās ambition heās just shattered. #Paris2024 pic.twitter.com/Q5SbKiksXQ
— J.K. Rowling (@jk_rowling) August 1, 2024
Musk shared a post from anti-trans activist and former college swimmer Riley Gaines that claimed āmen donāt belong in womenās sports.ā The owner of X, Tesla and SpaceX endorsed her message with one word: āAbsolutely.ā
Absolutely https://t.co/twccUEOW9e
— Elon Musk (@elonmusk) August 1, 2024
Trump posted a message on his own platform, Truth Social, with a picture from the fight with Carina accompanied by a promise in all-caps: āI will keep men out of womenās sports!ā
āWhat weāre asking is that the prosecution investigates not only these people but whoever it feels necessary,ā said Boudi. āIf the case goes to court, they will stand trial.ā He added that while the lawsuit was filed in France, āit could target personalities overseas,ā pointing out that āthe prosecutorās office for combating online hate speech has the possibility to make requests for mutual legal assistance with other countries.ā
Among the potential other targets: Trumpās running mate, U.S. Sen. JD Vance (R-Ohio), U.S. Rep. Marjorie Taylor Greene (R-Ga.), right-wing media personality Charlie Kirk, and boxer and wrestler Logan Paul, all of whom attacked Khelif on social media. Paul posted on X following her win against Carini: āThis is the purest form of evil unfolding right before our eyes. A man was allowed to beat up a woman on a global stage, crushing her lifeās dream while fighting for her deceased father. This delusion must end.ā
Fox News shared Paulās quote.
'DELUSION MUST END': Professional wrestler and influencer @LoganPaul makes his opinion known after a women's Olympic fighter dropped out a match just seconds into it after being forced to compete against a biological man. pic.twitter.com/7XTkmNP4Lm
— Fox News (@FoxNews) August 1, 2024
Paul later deleted the post and admitted that he āmight be guilty of spreading misinformation.ā
Khelifās coach, Pedro Diaz, told Variety that the bullying Khelif endured during the Paris games āincredibly affected herā and āeveryone around her.ā He advised her to stop looking at social media so the distraction would not impact her performance in the ring, where she ultimately won a gold medal.
According to Variety, Khelifās complaint for online harassment is actually one of several that have launched investigations regarding the Paris Olympics. Prosecutors are also investigating a complaint filed by Thomas Jolly, the artistic director of the opening and closing ceremonies. As the Los Angeles Blade reported, one part of the opening ceremony drew condemnations and online criticism. Jolly said he was āthe target of threatening messages and insults.ā DJ Barbara Butch claimed she had received online harassment, death threats, and insults following the opening ceremony.
Sports
Boston Red Sox player suspended for yelling anti-gay slur at fan
Jarren Duran issues apology to LGBTQ community
The Boston Red Sox on Aug. 12 suspended for two games its all-star outfielder Jarren Duran one day after he shouted an anti-gay slur at a fan who had been heckling him as Duran stood at home plate in the sixth inning of a game against the Houston Astros at Bostonās Fenway Park stadium.
Multiple news media outlets reported that a microphone at the stadium near where Duran stood picked up him yelling the slur. Most media outlets, including the Washington Post and the New York Times, did not report the exact words he shouted. But CNN reported on its website that Duran told the fan to āshut up you f**king f***ot.ā
According to CNN, after the game ended Duran, 27, issued an apology in a statement released by the Red Sox.
āDuring tonightās game, I used a truly horrific word when responding to a fan,ā Duran said in the statement. āI feel awful knowing how many people I offended and disappointed. I apologize to the entire Red Sox organization, but more importantly to the entire LGBTQ community,ā he said.
āOur young fans are supposed to be able to look up to me as a role model, but tonight I fell far short of that responsibility,ā his statement continues. āI will use this opportunity to educate myself and my teammates and to grow as a person.ā
CNN reports that the Red Sox announced on Aug. 12, the day following the Sunday game, that the team will donate Duranās two-day salary during the time of his suspension to the LGBTQ organization Federation of Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays, known as PFLAG.
āThe Red Sox addressed this incident with Jarren immediately following todayās game,ā a statement released by the Red Sox says. āWe echo Jarrenās apology to our fans, especially the LGBTQ community. We strive to be an organization that welcomes all fans to Fenway Park, and we will continue to educate our employees, players, coaches and staff on the importance of inclusivity,ā the statement says as reported by the online sports publication The Athletic.
Most of the media accounts of Jarren Duranās anti-gay slur and apology did not report that the incident took place about two months after the Red Sox hosted their 11th annual LGBTQ Pride Night at Fenway Park on July 11 of this year. The Red Sox are among several major league baseball teams, including D.C.ās Washington Nationals, that host āPrideā games at their stadiums.
The New York Times and other media outlets reported that Duran, who was named Most Valuable Player at last monthās baseball All-Star Game, reiterated his apology to reporters in interviews on the day following the incident.
āThere was no intent behind the word that was used,ā the Times quoted him as saying. āIt was just the heat of the moment and just happened to be said.ā According to the Times, Duran added, āI actually apologized to the umpire and the catcher for my actions because they were right there. They heard me say it.ā
Sports
Tom Daley announces retirement
Gay five-time diving medalist said ‘it feels like the right time’
The world has witnessed beautiful, brown-eyed Tom Daley dive into a pool as part of a competition for the last time. The Summer Olympics in Paris, where the five-time Olympian won silver in the 10m synchronized event, turns out to have been his swan dive.
āIt was emotional at the end, up there on the platform, knowing it was going to be my last competitive dive,ā Daley told British Vogue in an interview published Monday. āBut I have to make the decision at some point, and it feels like the right time. Itās the right time to call it a day.ā
The 30-year-old athlete from Devon, renowned as the UK’s most decorated diver, said he had trepidations about announcing he is officially done with diving.
āIt feels very, very surreal,ā he told Vogue. āI felt so incredibly nervous going into this, knowing it was my last Olympics. There was a lot of pressure and expectation. I was eager for it to be done,ā he said. āBut when I walked out, and saw my husband [American filmmaker Dustin Lance Black] and kids [Robbie and Phoenix] and my friends and family in the audience, I was like, you know what? This is exactly why I did this. Iām here, and no matter what happens in the competition itself, Iām going to be happy.ā
Daley publicly came out as gay in a YouTube video in 2013, following a tabloid headline that declared āTom Daley, āIām Not Gay.ā Up until that point, he had neither directly denied nor confirmed his orientation publicly.
āIt infuriated me that somebody would say that. I never wanted to be seen as lying or hiding from who I was,ā Daley told the interviewer.
āWith every Olympics, there are more and more out athletes,ā he said, mindful of one tabulation that estimates there were 195 openly LGBTQ competitors in Paris. Thatās a huge difference from a decade ago, he noted. āItās powerful,ā said Daley, while acknowledging that many closeted male athletes fear coming out and are reluctant to take that step.
āI think there is a lot of pressure for when people do come out to be an activist and to be outspoken. And sometimes thatās just not in some peopleās nature,ā he said. āI think this might be part of the reason why possibly more people havenāt felt as comfortable with coming out. I also think that [the world of sport] is such a heteronormative space ā¦ lots of queer kids, when theyāre younger, have this automatic feeling that they shouldnāt fit into sports, so they donāt pursue them. I hope weāll see more in the future.ā
As for Daleyās past, his accomplishments on the springboard are legendary. He made his Olympic debut at Beijing 2008 at the age of 14. He won gold and bronze medals in Tokyo, bronzes in London 2012 and Rio 2016. Daleyās gold came in the 10m synchronized event in Tokyo in 2021 alongside Matty Lee. He was back to defend his title in Paris after being convinced by his son Robbie to return to the sport. Daley won silver in the French capital alongside Noah Williams.
All told, he has since won a combined total of 11 World, Commonwealth and European Championship gold medals, and was the first Team GB diver to win four Olympic medals, a record he has now surpassed with five.
Before coming out, Daley was asked why he thought he had such a large gay following.
āProbably because I am half-naked all the time,ā he replied. And as proof thatās still true, his latest TikTok and Instagram posts are titled āBRAT Summer Olympics.ā
Daley now has more than five million followers across his social media platforms.Ā
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